You drew your line in the sand. He crossed it. (On bended knee.) You threw up the white flag. Prepare for Battle Get inspiration from Soirée’s Tara Guérard, the event planner whose recent book includes snapshots, ideas, and insights from notable Southern newlyweds, available at Pieces (3234 Roswell Road; 404-869-2476). Preorder your stationery from her new couture paper line, The Lettered Olive. Manage the Rations In lieu of place settings, personalize laser-engraved serving trays from Paper Fairy (115 Perry Street; 770-513-0400). Add a shot of cute to the reception with heart-shaped spoons. Finalize a Plan of Attack Let wedding planner Nicky Graham from Sugar Sweet Events (675 Seminole Avenue; 404-783-3626) map out the big day. She does attire, decor, (day of) wedding counsel — and her hubby’s a trained chef (cross that off the list). Rest Up Prenuptial jitters? Cut the Ambo, turn down the covers, and sleep tight on his and hers pillows by Snooze City at Kaleidoscope (252 West Ponce de Leon Avenue; 404-378-1214). Commemorate the Victory Zero in on sweet, evocative takes from your wedding with photos from Our Labor of Love (404-827-9621). Their hipster takes on your intimate wedding moments will delight you long after the bridal battle has ended. After all, you’ve got to keep up your strength for the war at home. Need more tactical tips? See our spring 2007 wedding guide.