You’ve tried role playing (too distracting), pole dancing (too strenuous) and talking dirty (too hard to keep a straight face).

For a more subtle approach to being sexy, try Berlin-based lingerie label Wundervoll.

The understated collection — now available in London — combines seductive feminine cuts with quality and comfort. Choose from soft cotton bras and bra tops with contrasting trims, high-waisted underwear with button detailing and cute briefs in a range of muted colours.

All you need to do now is lounge around at home wearing something from this retro chic collection.

And then we’ll see who’s trying too hard.

Available at Apartment C, 70 Marylebone High Street, W1U 5JL (020 7935 1854). To see styles, go to wundervoll-underwear.com.