Music, art, fine dining, and diplomacy (when shopping). Quite the modern courtier.

HEAR
Afternoon Arias
What: Do lunch with Madame Butterfly and The Barber of Seville.
Why: End su-hu-um-er Fri-hi-i-i-day on a high note.
When: Fri., 12:30 p.m. Also Aug. 19 & 26.
Where: Bryant Park, Sixth Ave., at 42nd St.

DO
Paintball by Numbers
What: Interactive mural-making, refreshments, dancing, and live rooftop music.
Why: Take a shot. Just don’t get caught in the crossfire.
When: Sat., 8 p.m.
Where: Flux Factory, 38-38 43rd St., Long Island City (718-707-3362).

EAT
Lawn Picnic
What: Charcuterie, artisanal cheeses, figs, truffle honey, and fresh baked desserts packed beautifully in a basket and served on a blanket.
Why: The feast: moveable. The relaxation: optimal.
When: Sunny afternoons in August.
Where: The Yard, Soho Grand, 310 W. Broadway, b/t Broome & Grand Sts. (212-965-3000).

BUY
Groupe 16sur20 Sample Sale 
What: Up to 80 percent off Seize sur Vingt men’s and women’s shirts, and selected items from Troglodyte Homunculus  and Obedient Sons.
Why: Groupethink may not be so bad after all.
When: Thurs.-Sat., noon-8 p.m.; Sun., noon-6 p.m.
Where: 267 Elizabeth St., b/t Prince & Houston Sts. (212-343-0007).

Rebecca Taylor Preview
What: Sip, snack, and chat with the designer during her winter 2005 showcase.
Why: Taylored to your shopping habit.
When: Thurs., 6 p.m.
Where: Rebecca Taylor Boutique, 260 Mott St., b/t Houston & Prince Sts. (212-966-0406).