Need some talking points for the weekend? GO Wölffer’s Harvest Party What: Twentieth anniversary fest at the Italiante villa with grape stomping, barrel rolling, BBQing, and plenty of fresh fall air. Why: Wolff down local varietals. When: Sun., 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Where: Wölffer Estate Vineyard, 139 Sagg Rd., Sagaponack (631-537-5106). Tickets online at wolffer.com. SEE I Kiffe NY What: A festival with all the fixings (music, street dance, gritty cinema) from France’s urban underground. Why: What’s the French for “ghetto fabulous”? When: Thru Oct. 28. Where: Various venues. See schedule. Popular Culture What: Mixed-media from Haitian artist Jean Patrick Icart-Pierre at an ABC Carpet-esque hidden gem. Why: The pictures pop. When: Thru Oct. 31. Where: The Gallery at Exotic Homes & Gardens, 1213a Atlantic Ave., b/t Bedford & Nostrand Aves., Bed Stuy (718-230-1536). BUY Lolli by Reincarnation Sample Sale What: It’s stuff you can wear now and it’s up to 80 percent off: buttery-soft leather bags (mini to jumbo sizes), hand-knit hats, dresses, and jewelry. Why: Quit Lolli-gagging. When: Thurs.-Sun. Daily, 1-8 p.m. Where: Lolli, 85 Stanton St., b/t Allen & Orchard Sts. (212-529-2030). Brooklyn Royalty & Friends Sample Sale What: Hoodies, track jackets, and tees. Love Brigade duds for ladies, deals (jewelry, swim, clothes) from local designers, mango mimosas, gift bags, the works. Why: Where’s Brooklyn at? When: Sat., noon-6 p.m. Where: 3rd Ward, 195 Morgan Ave., at Stagg St., Bushwick (917-349-9155).