Preemptively apologize for ganking the last beer and using all of the TP with a swell hostess gift.Dips on Speed DialHelp her organize her repertoire of apps with a recipe box ($132). Each one is made from salvaged wood and contains cute spoon-festooned cards. Tulips EverlastingShow up with flowers already arranged in a Perch Ceramics rosette vase ($44). When the blooms wilt, she’ll be left with a pretty utensil jar.Carry OnTake a ho-hum bottle of three buck red to the next level by presenting it in local illustrator Wayne Pate’s seagull tote ($55). Later, your hostess can use it to schlep goodies from the greenmarket. Cleanup DutyStrands of olive soap beads from Syria ($22; to order, call 718-963-2600) are a cool spin on soap on a rope. They come in chamomile or lavender scents, and can be used on clothing, too. Relish the Slow JamsThe perfect morning-after scenario is a stiff cuppa and some toast loaded with Laena McCarthy’s artisanal jam ($5-$9) in a flavor like ginger pear, strawberry balsamic, or morello cherry.For Star Wars plates, linen table runners, and honey from the Hamptons, go to ShopTalk. Then try throwing your own summer party.Up to 50% off BeirnNeed help overcoming your serpent phobia? Snatch one of Beirn’s sleek and colorful envelope clutches or handy hobos — made from Indonesian water snake skin — while they’re up to 50% off on Swirl.