It’s all about the right attitude.

DO (and SEE)
Midnight Cowboy VIP Reception
What: PIGLFF hosts a benefit for the Philly Film Society, followed by John Schlesinger’s Oscar-winning film about sex, drugs, and money in old New York.
Why: You’re not all bunched up.
When: Sat., 5 p.m.
Where: XIX, Broad & Walnut Sts. (215-893-1234). Tickets at 267-765-9700 ext. 4.

SHOP
For Cheap
What: Sugarcube takes 60 percent off girls’ A.P.C. and additional discounts.
Why: Dressing nice makes you feel like a ray of sunshine, instead of the usual thundercloud.
When: Thurs. & Fri., noon-9 p.m.
Where: 124 N. Third St. (215-238-0825).

TAKE
A Spa-Cation
What: You’re too busy to leave the city, but you need a mental health break. (You really do, nutter.) 
Why: Treat yourself already.
When: Thru Sept. 4. Mon.-Thurs.
Where: Four Seasons Hotel, 1 Logan Sq. (215-963-1500).

GO
Izakaya
What: Add something new the next time you tie one on in A.C. with chef Michael Schulson’s Japanese pub fare.
Why: What’s the matter? Your pants are already too tight?
When: Sun.-Thurs., 5 p.m.-1 a.m.; Fri. & Sat., 5 p.m.-2 a.m.
Where: Borgata, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City (866-692-6742).

ACT
Your Age
What: Weekend to-do list: have fun, enjoy life, and try not to be a snarky little bitch.
Why: It takes less energy than misery. 
When: The sooner, the better.
Where: Wherever you are.