It’s the first weekend of summer and you forgot to make big plans? Relax. We’ve got plenty for a memorable Memorial Day weekend. SEE “Ralph Rucci: Recent Paintings and Works on Paper” What: Fashion designer/painter’s first exhibition. Why: Most designers only think they’re artists. When: Sat. & Sun., 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Thru June 26. Where: Serge Sorokko Gallery, 231 Grant Ave., at Sutter St. (415-421-7770). Charlie Cox Runs with Scissors What: A comedic play about a terminally ill guy on a hilarious adventure. Why: Don’t try this at home. When: Thurs.-Sat., 8 p.m.; Sun., 2 p.m. & 7 p.m. Thru June 19. Where: Marin Theatre Company, 397 Miller Ave., b/t Camino Alto and Downtown Mill Valley (415-388-5208). EAT Rue Saint Jacques What: New bistro in Nob Hill. Why: French women don’t get fat. When: Thurs.-Sun., 5:30-10 p.m. Where: 1098 Jackson St., at Taylor St. (415-776-2002). HEAR Ari Hest What: New York cutie sings sweet songs. Why: Your sucked out soul could use some inspiration. When: Fri. at 8 p.m. Doors open at 7 p.m. Where: Swedish American Hall, 2174 Market St., b/t Sanchez & Church Sts. (415-861-5016 or cafedunord.com). DO Sonoma Jazz Festival What: Yummy food, delish wines, soothing tunes. Why: See your sheba shimmy shake. When: Thurs.-Sun. Various times. Where: Field of Dreams, 151 1st St. W., at Montini Way (866-468-8355).