An important life lesson we’d like to impart to our sons: A man of steel doesn’t have to be as hard as plastic.

Sophie & Lili’s superhero dolls have the power to soften things up. The twelve-inch dolls are handmade from high-quality quilter’s cotton and can be personalized to resemble your little caped crusader.

Choose the skin tone, hair color, and tee/cape combo that best matches your mini. His first initial will be prominently displayed on a shield across the doll’s chest.

And have no fear: Just because they’re squishy doesn’t mean they aren’t tough enough to ward off evil, fight villains, and save the day. They just do it with a more tender touch.

Available online at sophieandlili.com, $30.

CHILL OUT
Freezin’ for a Reason Virginia Polar Bear Dip
What: Watch brave souls plunge into icy water (or just stick a toe in) to raise funds for Camp Sunshine.
Why: A magician, balloon art, and other shiver-free entertainment.
When: Sat., 1-3 p.m.
Where: Lake Anne Plaza, 1609 Washington Plz., Reston. Free to watch; $100 donation to dip.

BOP
Shabbat Shaboom with Mama Doni & The Mama Doni Band
What: The songstress’s repertoire of silly tunes has everyone singing along.
Why: Wiggle to the disco beats of “Sabbath Queen.”
When: Sun., 2 p.m.
Where: JCC of Greater Washington, 6125 Montrose Rd., Rockville (301-881-0100). Info at 301-348-3880. Adults and children, $10.

CELEBRATE
Black History Month Family Day Celebration
What: Catch a show by the Washington Performing Arts Society and learn about history through interactive programs.
Why: Don’t miss the new self-guided tour, Addy’s World (of American Girl fame, of course).
When: Sat., 11:30 a.m.-5 p.m.
Where: National Museum of American History, Constitution Ave. NW, at 14th St. (202-633-1000). Admission is free.

Photo: Courtesy of Sophie & Lili

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